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3.15 Anchors for Creating Personal Value

By Dr. WANG Ming-min


Creating an anchor for personal value involves establishing a stable, clear, and measurable personal value system through four steps: self-awareness, value positioning, ability accumulation, and continuous practice. This gives you a clear direction and judgment criteria in your career development and life choices.


An anchor of value is a unique and stable reflection of an individual's value in the workplace and in life, encompassing core elements such as professional skills, industry experience, and network resources. Like a ship's anchor, it solidifies your position in career development, becoming a core force supporting career advancement and improving salary and benefits.


Once a person establishes their own personal value anchor, they will no longer drift aimlessly in the workplace like duckweed, but will instead work purposefully, expanding their professional value and influence like a snowball rolling downhill.


Values are the foundational basis of our values; they determine our attitudes towards work and life, and serve as a compass for judging right and wrong and choosing actions. Clearly defining your values can help you make wise decisions at life's crossroads and avoid drifting with the tide.


There are many ways to create your own personal value anchor. For example, academic qualifications, various professional certificates, published papers, and awards are all concrete manifestations of personal value anchors. Although there are many opinions online that academic qualifications are devalued and professional titles are useless, it is undeniable that academic qualifications and various certificates remain relatively objective standards for measuring personal ability.


Creating anchors to personal values can also be done by reflecting on past experiences, identifying moments that bring you satisfaction and pride, and analyzing the values reflected in those experiences. For example, when you feel happy helping others, "altruism" may be your core value; when you feel proud of upholding your principles, "integrity" may be very important to you.


Values are not innate, but rather the result of environmental shaping and personal choices. Reflecting on the influence of your family of origin, the rewards/punishments you received during your upbringing, mainstream cultural and societal values, and the difficulties you overcame can all help you examine your values more rationally.


According to career anchor theory, understanding your own career type—technical/functional, managerial, autonomous/independent, secure/stable, creative/entrepreneurial, service-oriented, challenge-oriented, or lifestyle-oriented—can help you find the most suitable career development path.


Typically, we can construct a self-worth coordinate system from three dimensions: growth (whether one continuously learns new skills), character (whether one adheres to principles such as integrity), and responsibility (whether one fulfills promises to oneself/others). Different values may conflict (such as "honesty" vs. "goodwill" ), requiring the definition of priorities in different scenarios and the setting of "absolutely inviolable" bottom lines.


Enhancing the value anchor is also crucial. In a highly competitive workplace, it's common for newcomers to rise to the top and for those who don't adapt to fall behind. Accumulating skills and building value to increase the value anchor is an effective way to avoid being eliminated from the workforce. For example, by deeply cultivating professional skills , choosing a specific niche and investing continuously, participating in complex projects, and publishing professional papers, one can become an expert in that field, thus increasing the value anchor. Alternatively, one can develop a long-term career within the same industry, accumulating industry experience , gaining a deep understanding of industry operating rules, market trends, and competitive landscapes, experiencing the industry's ups and downs, and accumulating experience in dealing with various situations.


Furthermore, expanding one's professional network is crucial. Actively participating in industry events, joining professional communities, and connecting with peers, upstream and downstream partners, and industry experts can enrich your network's value anchor by building strong relationships. However, it's essential to carefully evaluate activities and network expansion beforehand. Blindly accumulating a large number of events and contacts can lead to a wasted effort.


By recording your progress and reviewing it regularly, you can replace negative obsessions with concrete facts , improving your understanding of your value anchors and avoiding many pointless actions . This reinforces your sense of value through an " input-output-feedback " feedback loop. Review your values annually to see if you are truly practicing them and make minor adjustments based on life stages. Values change with life stages; youth may emphasize "freedom," while middle age may shift towards "responsibility." Allow your values to differ as you grow, avoiding rigidity.


Of course, we must also be wary of being held hostage by external evaluations . Don't base your self-worth entirely on external recognition, such as job title, salary, or the opinions of others. If you rely solely on these external evaluations, you will become extremely vulnerable once these external labels disappear.


The ultimate goal of establishing a value anchor is to empower you to become the master of your own life—to avoid being bound by external standards, misled by short-term desires, and to clearly understand "who I am," "what I want," and "how I should live." It is not the end point, but a "mental map" that accompanies you throughout your life , providing you with stable direction and standards of judgment in a rapidly changing world.